"A cheerful heart is good medicine."

(Proverbs 17:22)

A cheerful heart?
How can that even be possible?

My diagnosis is not good, the treatments don’t sound like fun, I’m not the bravest person in the world, I don’t even like shots (37 years ago the hardest part about getting married was the blood test). How is it possible to be cheerful during a time like this?

It is only possible for our family because of our faith. God has promised that He will never leave us. He is in control and He is good – all the time.

Very early in this journey, Patra and I knew that we would need to laugh as much as possible. Laughter doesn’t minimize the problem. We understand the severity of the situation. Laughter and a cheerful heart help you get through the difficult situations – yes, I am learning that a cheerful heart really is good medicine.

You may not be facing a bad medical diagnosis. Your “circumstance” may be financial, emotional, relational. Remember, “a cheerful heart is good medicine.”

We have been blessed with many friends who are supporting us. At any given moment, we know that some are standing with us while others are on their knees praying for us. (We are encouraging them to change positions often so they don’t grow weary.) We could never express how much your thoughts and prayers mean. They cheer our hearts!

We hope this blog will keep you up to date on what’s happening. Friends have told us that they appreciate being able to pray specifically. But we really do also hope that it will be an encouragement and blessing to those who read it. I am convinced that God wants to use this time to teach me new things – maybe I can pass some of those lessons on vicariously.

Bob

Comments

Jenny said…
Yey, Dad! So glad it's up and running. Can't wait to read more...
David... said…
Hi Bob. I always leave your most recent message in my inbox. Not that the others aren't important, but the most recent is closer to the top of the list, and every time I see it, I stop and think about you and am reminded of what a Godly man you are, and how blessed I am that I can truly call you a "friend". God has a plan for all of us, obviously, and I'm convinced He will use this experience in your life for His glory. Even if it's only one person, someone is going to learn about Jesus Christ because of you in this situation. Thanks Bob, for the friend and leader you are. God bless. - DJ...
The Agarwals said…
Mr. Bugg,
Emily is a very dear friend to me and ever since she shared of your news we have been lifting you up. I am so glad that you have begun a blogging journey too, so we can stand beside your precious family in prayer. We're close to Moffitt, so while you're in the area, we are available to help out in any way. Emily knows the way to reach us- we would be honored.
Trusting God to do great things in and through you.
Blessings,
Annie
Mr. Bugg,
Our family is praying for you and yours, and trusting in God's faithfulness with you.

With love,
Sarah
(Thom's daughter)
Unknown said…
We'll be praying and encouraging from a distance, BUT know God is right there with you/ in you!!

Bob & Janice Adams
LandL said…
Bob, whether you realize it or not, you are such an encouragement to our hearts. We pray for you and know that God will work his will in yours and Patra's life through all of these experiences.
We love you both.
Lex and Linda
Steven Perry said…
Thank you Bob for doing this it is great to see how we should pray and certainly a blessing to the Perry family by HIS witness in your life.

God Bless - Steven, Linda, Shay and Spencer
Tawny George said…
This is such a great idea Uncle Bob!!! Love you much and praying for you guys =)
Kim S. said…
Hi Mr. Bugg. Just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you! I miss the Bugg family - it is an amazing family!!! with love and prayers - Kim Watson Steika
sdobson said…
Dear Bob and Patra,

You have both been in my prayers. May God bring healing in your body, as well as strength, wisdom, and joy to your hearts. You are such special and dear people. I'm glad for this way to stay in touch.

Shalah
Janet Kuntz said…
Jeff and I want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We have a sister-in-law that has been battling multiple myeloma for over 7 years and we are fully aware of the treatments involved. We are having you placed on our prayer list at church and are praying for, and expecting a miracle!! Thanks to you and Patra for being an inspiration to us!

With love and prayers,
Janet Kuntz
Dee Dee said…
We're praying for you Bob...just know that the task ahead of you is never as great as the POWER behind you. Be strong in the Lord and His mighty power. Eph. 6:10

Lord bless...
Dorothy and Bobby Deason
Aimee said…
Amazing is what this blog is! A true testimony of how the Lord wants us to know our purpose in this life, through ALL HE allows to come our way.
You are touching and teaching so many through your walk.
My parents are Larry and Mary Cunningham, and I know first hand that you are and have been speaking "life" unto them. Thank you for letting God's glory shine through.
I am praying for you and your family.
Isaiah 58:8
Your light shall break forth like the morning, your healing shall spring forth speedily, and your righteousness shall go before you; the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard.
Because of Him,
Aimee Horstman
Pat Murphy Findlan said…
Bob, what an encouragement to read your blog. I know several others also diagnosed with so called "rare" multiple myloma. I will be forwarding this to encourage others. God is already using you in powerful ways.
For His Glory!
Pat Murphy Findlan
Matt@ Chris said…
Bob it's wonderful you have a blog. It's encouraging to read your testimony. And we're praying for you and your family. We have confidence that the Lord has His healing hands on you. From Matt @ Chris.
Carol Cutaia said…
Bob,
Who knew you were such a creative writer and a computer guru too? :-)
Your outlook is wonderful and it, along with your family and faith, will get you through this difficult time.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol
Anonymous said…
I am in Jenney's small group & will be praying for you & our family. They have gotten us through some tought times - but you are right - God is good... all the time!

Jacque Serra
Kruse said…
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Kruse said…
Bob, we are just wanting you to know that we appreciate the time you are taking to keep us with you and Patra while you all are going through this valley. We are there with you and are praying that the mountain you will climb in the end will come easy. Thank you my Brother. Kruse. (eyes always up and forward!!)
Anonymous said…
Hi Mr. Bugg - Emily was my BSM Director when my husband and I were students at TCU. I am praying for you and your family - thanks for sharing your journey.

Blessings,
Kimberly
Karen said…
Mr. Bugg,

I am a friend of Emily! She amazes me every day! I am so lucky to get to share life with her!! I think she might just have gotten some of that spunky, faith-filled amazingness from you! Been praying for you and will continue to join you guys on this journey! Thanks for sharing with us!!
Karen
Unknown said…
Praying for you Mr. Bugg!
Pat said…
Bob and Patra,
The CBS men's Bible Study is praying for both of you as you go through this journey with "the body". You have been our spiritual leader for the past 11 years and we miss you and can't wait hear about how God is using this in both your life and ours. Please know that your witness has been the glue that has held our group together and we are grateful for all your time and prayers for us over all these years. We know that you will continue to pray for us as we do for you. Patra, Bob is so blessed to have you with him during this time. Your life is also an encouragement to all who know you and the Jesus you represent. Thanks for doing this blog so we can let you know how you are progressing. You are a blessing to all of us!!!

Pat from CBS
Al said…
Bob
I want you to know you are in my prayers daily. I have appreciated your teaching and sharing of yourself. You and Patra have meant so much to all of us. I'm excited to see what God now has planed for your future. I know that God is good and He has a very special purpose for you.
Al
Unknown said…
Bob, I am praying for you. I am in Jenny's Bible Study class. You as well knew my late husband Rick Kaiser, once upon a time in Men's Bible study, he liked you a lot. My brother 67, in Germany has multiple Myeloma, I forwarded him your blog. Blessings Alia Kaiser
Bob,

You rescued me out of the top of your tree in your backyard many years ago. Thank You! I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and thinking of you and your family. And I do so much appreciate having access to your blog, Emily, and Jenny's blog as all of you are so thoughtful in your writing and this helps me to reflect on my own experiences and ways of thinking. I hope this journey for all of you gives wisdom and peace. My mother has you in her thoughts as well.

Alicia Montgomery (formerly Gasperin)
Linda Fisher Potash said…
Bob,
You looked so wonderful at the reunion (as you still do...LOL) this came as a shock. Your pictures and your diary are wonderful. Being a writer I do agree that it is extremely theraputic..helpful to you and helpful to others as well.

My son Adam has three girls 5,3 1/2, and 1. I know what a joy they are and great for comic relief. You and Patra are in my thoughts and prayers. I will keep following the posts. (You write so well). Perhaps next will be a book.
Linda Fisher Potash
Anonymous said…
Dear Patra and Bob,
I can't tell you what a blessing it is to check up on you in this way. You are such special friends and you can be sure that with every read and in between your names are lifted up before our heavenly Father.
We miss seeing you, but can now visualize some of what is going on and in the case of Bob's messages, smile and laugh with you as God has shown your gift of humor. We are indeed "cheered" even as serious events unfold.
Mary C.